Sometimes I just can't seem to understand why some people are just so SO self centered?!? I understand, I do, that sometimes it can get quite noisy along the corridors when girls gather to catch up and chit chat, but that's part of the college experience, what more, it's a girl's college, there's bound to be talking!
I won't mind the polite, "hey guys, i'm heading to bed, mind if you keep it down", or the "hey.. it's a tad too loud girls". That I totally understand, cause we can be a bit too rowdy! But to tell us to keep completely quiet and silent and not to talk at all?! Honestly! Or rather, not to talk along corridors because it isn't a common area.
There are two things that is wrong with that, 1. if the corridor isn't a common area, then where is?! It doesn't belong to anyone in particular or is a part of any one's room.. so that, by definition, is common area. and 2. If everyone on the same floor is alright with the noise and YOU are the only one that DOESN'T socialise, then the problem, obviously, lies with YOU!
Honestly, why can't some people just see that.. or self reflect, or ask why they aren't part of the conversation, why people shun them? This is after all college, we come from different cultures and countries, this is the time to know more and to network and to just forge bonds.
Can't they just understand that?
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